January 17, 2023 - Tuesday


Ollie came down sick today. How she came about getting it, I have no idea. She was burning up this morning though, so no school for her and no plans for me. I'm honestly not too mad about it at this point. I've been feeling pretty desperate to just be by myself lately and I don't know why. I obviously love my friends very much and usually also enjoy fellowship and getting out of the house, but right now I just want to stay inside and do nothing; see no one. Playdates are killing me. The thought of evangelizing is making me want to curl up in a ball and die. I just don't have anything to give right now! And I think it's ok? I know it's just a phase and it's ok to have days where I can't do anything to serve anyone aside from the people in my household, but I still feel guilty. 

So, the day was spent sitting on the couch with Ollie, reading, and working for a while. I ended up putting off working for so long (because this is also something I don't want to do AT ALL right now) that I was super stressed in the afternoon, trying to cram it all in before Ben got home from work and failing. 

Ollie went to bed at like 6:15pm. We'll see how tonight goes!

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