June 25, 2026 - Thursday


Something has been eating at me since Monday night, and it feels like the longer I sit with it, the more bothered and angry I become. Okay, here's the story. Ben went out for drinks with the small group guys on Monday evening. He was there for a long time, and he had a good night, but when he got home, he told me that they spent the whole time debating 'hot topics'. This sounds like a literal nightmare of an evening to me, but whatever floats his boat, I guess. One of the hot topics they debated was WOMEN BEING IN A PLACE OF LEADERSHIP WITHIN THE CHURCH. First, I didn't know this was a hot topic. This isn't the freaking 1940s. Second, I had no idea that men that I spend time with on a weekly basis believe that women need to be put in/kept in 'their place'. I am so disgusted and pissed off. And I know that it doesn't affect me directly, necessarily, but I am horrified, none the less. Every day that goes by, I'm feeling more angry and hurt. I feel disrespected, truthfully. And discounted. My real question is: is this a church viewpoint or the view of a few men that are in this small group?? If it's a church view, we will be leaving. Or, at least, I will. 

*Clem and Jonas told me that this is how people are doing hearts now. *shrug* 

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